I've been in the D/s lifestyle for about 10 years.
Ryan Marino on Twitter a 59-year-old, cis, het, kinky Dominant woman. So, when you’ve pulled the straps so tight your husband can barely move-during that last half hour-you should put the game pad down, SACKD, turn off the TV, and focus all your attention on your poor, miserable, suffering-just-the-way-he-likes-to-suffer bondage freak of a husband. And pay special attention during times of escalation.” Figure out good safety rules and stick to them. “So, it’s important to not get comfortable and then get lax because nothing has gone wrong before. “The way our brains work, we get lulled into feeling safe when we do risky things a lot,” said Dr. Long airline flights famously present a risk for embolism-all that time spent sitting on your ass-but flights of less than three hours “don’t raise the risk substantially,” said the docs, “and using straps has the added benefit of being a bit more straightforward to release in a pinch.”īe aware of the risks, mitigate them as best you can, and you don’t have to give up your storage nights. “But it's doubtful that using straps instead of ropes would make a difference as far as clot/embolism risk, or that a short period of extra tightening-30 minutes-would be riskier for clots or an embolism or anything other than bruising or other soft tissue injury from direct pressure.” “There is going to be some level of risk with immobility and restraint with things like blood clots,” said the docs, and blood clots can cause an embolism, and embolisms can kill. As for your concerns about leather straps causing a potentially life-threatening pulmonary embolism… Safe and sane bondage tops know to keep a sturdy pair of safety scissors nearby for the same reasons. “If things go south, it’s easy for anyone to get flustered or start to panic, which does not make untying tight knots any easier,” added the docs. Marino urge rope bondage fans to use quick-release knots. It doesn’t sound like you’re doing rope bondage, SACKD, since sleepsacks and straitjackets designed for BDSM play are usually secured with leather straps, not ropes.
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And physical restraint plus ‘chemical restraint,’ i.e., sedation or intoxication, is a much more dangerous combination, so it’s probably safer to avoid anything like alcohol. “Another potential risk from tight restraints would be muscle breakdown potentially causing kidney damage and electrolyte issues (‘rhabdomyolysis’),” said the docs, “so platitudes like ‘stay hydrated,’ i.e., drink plenty of water before and after, is reasonable advice. So, don’t strap your husband face-down on your bondage board, don’t put anything around his neck or otherwise restrict his air intake, and if you haven’t already agreed on a safeword and/or safegrunt and/or safegesture, settle on one and/or all now. I don’t want to give them up any more than he does. It feels crazy to say this, but “storage nights” are special couple time for us and an important part of our intimacy. Is there a chance I might? Can you ask a doc for me?
We’ve been doing this for 10 years and I haven’t killed him yet. For the same reason, he doesn’t want to ask his doctor. He didn't want me to write, because he doesn’t want to find out it’s dangerous and have to stop. If it matters, he’s in his 40s, in great shape, normal blood pressure, etc. But for the last hour they’re fairly tight, and for the last 20 or 30 minutes they’re almost unbearably tight. Some go over him and around the board, pressing him down to the board, others go around his body and cinch in. I’m worried that he’s going to have an embolism or something because of the straps. (We also have a leather straitjacket, but we use it a lot less often.)
If he doesn’t complain or ask to get out, he’s rewarded with a hand-job when I’m done. Toward the end of the night, the straps are so tight he can’t move or even take a deep breath. I play video games for a few hours with my feet up on him. Most often I put him in his sleepsack-picture a leather sleeping bag you can’t get out of-which is strapped to a bondage board on the floor by our couch. But I worry about accidentally killing him. We’ve been able to make it work because he’s into a kind of bondage he calls “storage.” On “storage nights,” I put him in bondage and play video games while he “suffers.” So far, so good. I’m a fairly vanilla guy, while my husband is into bondage. I’m nervous about sending this question and my husband is afraid you might answer it.
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